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The Shackles of Freedom – Chapter 6.2

“Hello?”

“Dad; it’s Tim.”

“Hi, Tim. It’s good to hear from you. How are things? Any progress on welding school?”

A catch in his voice.

“Well, that’s why I’m calling.”

“What’s wrong?

“I was all set. Mom had signed me up for this really great VoTech school. One of the best programs in the state. I was supposed to start in two weeks.”

“What happened?”

“I…”

Silence.

“I couldn’t pass the background check. I was rejected because of my felony convictions.”

These are the moments they don’t tell you about. The moments after prison when someone is simply trying to move forward and rebuild his life, but begins to experience the harsh aftermath. Like the aftershock after a terrible earthquake, the fragile constitution of a life is yet again threatened by the obstacles that inevitably beset the future plans of the prisoner, reformed to fit his current station. Continue reading

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Chapter 6.1 – The Shackles of Freedom

They released him from the bars that enclosed him, but they didn’t prepare him for life outside the walls that imprisoned him. I spoke with a friend of his about his life after prison expecting to hear how thankful he was to have regained his liberty—to be outside those walls. I wasn’t prepared for her response. I was instead reminded of a poignant moment from the film The Patriot.

A posted bill from General Washington announcing that all slaves in service to the war effort for one year will be granted freedom. A slave from the militia uttered a single word in response:

Freedom.

His comment was met with a callous retort from one of the other men:

What the hell are you gonna do with freedom?

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Wait, Hope, Pray – Chapter 5.5

As I consider my son’s incarceration, I cannot escape the concept of forgiveness. The most liberal of my friends believe that crime cannot go unpunished and my most conservative friends embrace the concept of the ex-convict reintegrating with society. We all, it seems, believe that the law is necessary and has a purpose—but there seems to be equal agreement that once the debt is paid, forgiveness is in order. Continue reading

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